This is to the crazy one, the misfit 💌

Do you sometimes feel like “the crazy one?” 

• the ONE who sticks out.

• the ONE who’s too loud.

• the ONE who doesn’t follow the crowd. 

• The ONE who’s too emotional.

You think, “What the f*** is wrong with me?!!!” 😳😳😳

Or maaaaybe you’re just a misfit — many n’betweeners are. 

A misfit is a person who does not conform to the norms, expectations, or behaviors imposed by society. Misfits often feel like they don’t quite “fit in” with the mainstream, leading them to stand out as unique. 

I feel that way right now. I’m currently in Copenhagen, and I feel like the odd one here everywhere I go. When I’m on the train filled with people, the silence invades the space until I hear my belly growl with hunger. When I talk to strangers and they stare as if saying, "Why are you talking to me?" When I sing out loud while biking. When I walk in my colorful outfits.

In all these moments, I feel like a misfit. 

Misfits have a bad rep cause of our "craziness" or "wildness." There is wisdom to our neurotic parts. There is power to standing out.

Society has this thing where it tries to put people into neat little boxes. But as misfits, we’re more like wildflowers — growing wherever we please, not caring about the garden lines.  🌼🌸

So let’s give a big shout-out to weirdness. Whether it’s your quirky sense of humor, your unique taste in music, or that hobby everyone else just doesn’t get — these are the things that make you YOU. 

Not fitting in doesn’t mean you’re broken; it means you’re free. Free to be yourself, to explore your own path, and to redefine what it means to belong. 

Belonging is actually the opposite of fitting in. 

You don’t make a difference fitting in. You do STANDING out. That’s where the magic happens. ✨

I know, being a misfit isn’t always easy. It can get lonely. That said, being a misfit isn’t about rejection; it’s about rebellion. It’s about refusing to conform to a world that’s too small for your big, beautiful self. 

Can you belong to what most matters to you?

When you let yourself come closer to your congruent self, you ironically begin to find a deeper sense of belonging. You’re not wasting time on people, activities, or things you “should do.”

I have such space for you, misfit. Where your quirks and oddness don't stick out.

Where we celebrate everything that makes us gloriously different, delightfully strange, and unapologetically out of place. 🤪

Join us in The nest.

A space where we’re celebrating all of YOU.

A 6-month program for n’betweeners ready for radical transformation. There’s a whole world of people out there who feel just like you do. That’s why I’ve created The nest, so you feel like coming home.

It’s a unique space for you to create the change you’ve been longing for. It begins January 2025.

Would you rather spend the rest of your life fitting in or doing what matters to you most?

Don’t try to conform.

Get your 🍑 in The nest before it's too late.  

You don’t want to miss this opportunity.

Keep being bold, keep being strange, and, most importantly, keep being you.

XO

Nora

PS: My fellow misfit, watch this video if you need a little boost.