Be prepared to get what you want

Do you ask for what you want? 

Or do you tend to minimize your needs followed by “I’m good”?

Maybe you're terrified to ask for that raise? Pretend you’re fine when you need a hug? Afraid to ask a friend for a favor?

You end up feeling disappointed, resentful or unseen.

Here is another way:

Give people the opportunity to meet your needs.

You’re responsible for caring and communicating what you desire.

Yes, it’s scary to ask for what you really want. You might not feel deserving. 

The thing is we regret it when we don’t ask.

We see opportunities pass us and it creates a sense of remorse, thinking “Why didn’t I just speak up?” or “I can’t believe I didn’t say anything.”

So, why let these opportunities pass?! 

The worst that happens when we ask for something is we’re told no, or it just doesn't happen. And yea sometimes that feels like a dagger to the heart. It can be a big blow to the ego, but in that moment you’re acknowledging yourself, giving yourself the opportunity to be seen. 

That is a brave act. 

You’ve gotta put yourself out there to be seen.

So in the spirit of asking for what we want, I have a question for you. 

 👉 What do you want from me?   

What kind of content are you interested in receiving?

I want to hear what would be supportive for you.

Maybe you want to gain more tools on how to invest in yourself? Get support on how to manage your mental health as an n'betweener. Or perhaps you want new opportunities? 

Hit the reply button and let me know! I genuinely want your input so I can meet your needs. Let’s put into practice asking. 

Here’s to getting what we want! 🔥

Nora