You're devaluing yourself

Here is a mistake we make as n’betweeners: 

👉 We place a lot of energy on being gooooood.

We find comfort in being “a good person that does the right things.”

It's safer to be liked - to hide and give away your power. 

Here is what it can look like to be “good” 😇

• You put other people before you

• You accommodate and people-please

• You smile or pretend when you’re in pain

• You give more than you receive

Let’s clarify something: there is no such thing as being “good.” Now I’m not saying you’re bad, we’re equally “good and bad” (whatever that means).

However, when we get determined to be perceived as “good,” we overextend our energy, our resources, and our time, and we overspend our money.

Time to save that energy - no more overspending.

When we spend energy on things that are not fulfilling us, we exhaust ourselves. Getting caught up in the “I should be doing this” depletes us rather than energizes us.

Take a moment to reflect on what actually brings you energy.

The reason you overspend your energy, rather than save it, is that you’re not fully valuing the powerful amazing human you are.

Devaluing ourselves can become a sneaky n’betweener habit. It's important to identify the many shapes and forms it takes.

Dare to step into your full worth?

I believe in you. You deserve to be free.

What if you were to view your energy, time, resources, and money as sacred? What would it take for you to care for your energy with deep respect?

Only you can value yourself. 

How will you practice this today? Maybe you will celebrate your growth? Set a boundary with a colleague? Or, maybe you’ll stop postponing what actually matters to you.

Much love,

💕

Nora